What do you do when s/he says “I love you”

A dear friend of mine is working on a project and she asked me for my opinion on the matter. While I am no expert and no counselor, I did have some reactive thoughts. My response below:

The truth of the matter is there is no right answer because there is no predictable situation. You must be honest in your words and actions. You must be as selfish as your heart requires and as giving as your heart allows…If you need a moment to think about your answer, you can start with this assessment:

‘To lie to you and say that I love you when I don’t, robs the truth of it’s power and its audience when and if I ever do truly love you.’

-twopointoh

Here is the dear friend’s video post on the matter.